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Love is Winning: When we don’t fit in – MLK Jr.

It’s not always “cool” to show love is winning.  Being someone that lives life to show the world that God’s Love is Winning doesn’t often win you many popularity contests.  Jesus says many people will even hate those who try and follow his way of love.

Martin Luther King Jr. did not fit in.  In fact, even though it caused him a lot of pain and eventually took his life, not fitting in was King’s mode of operation.  He didn’t want to fit in if fitting in meant joining his society in the status quo of oppression, greed, violence, and hate. 

Martin Luther King, Jr. is one of my heroes.  Like many of the imperfect men that God has used to carry out his perfect plan, King courageously refused to be comfortable, risking his reputation, his safety, and eventually his life, to show that Love can Win and is Winning in the face of dark evil, oppression, and prejudice.

Read this speech carefully and then listen to and watch it below.  You don’t want to miss one word!

“Modern psychology has a word that is probably used more than any other word in psychology.  It is the word maladjusted.  And certainly we hear this word a great deal.  And I’m sure all of us want to live the well-adjusted life in order to avoid neurotic and schizophrenic personalities.  But I must honestly say to you, as I’ve said before, there are some things in our nation and in our world of which I’m proud to be maladjusted, which I call upon all men of goodwill to be maladjusted until the good society is realized.

I must honestly say to you that I never intend to become adjusted to segregation and discrimination.  I never intend to adjust myself to religious bigotry.  I never intend to adjust myself to economic conditions that will take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few and leave men by the thousands and millions smothering in an airtight cage of poverty in the midst of an affluent society.  I must honestly say to you that I never intend to adjust myself to the madness of militarism and the self-defeating effects of physical violence.  For in a day when Sputniks and Geminis are dashing through outer space, and the guided ballistic missiles are causing highways of death through the stratosphere, no nation can ultimately win a war.  It is no longer a choice between violence and non-violence.  It is either non-violence or non-existence.  And the alternative to disarmament, the alternative to a greater suspension of nuclear tests, the alternative to a negotiated settlement of the crisis in Vietnam, the alternative to strengthening the United Nations and bringing all of the nations of the world into the United Nations, and thereby disarming the whole world may well be a civilization plunged into the abyss of annihilation.  And our earthly habitat will be transformed into an inferno that even the mind of Dante could not imagine.

And so I say that maybe our world is in dire need of a new organization, the International Association for the Advancement for Creative Maladjustment.  Men and women who would be as maladjusted as the prophet Amos who in the midst of the injustices of his day could cry out in words that echo across the centuries, ‘Let justice roll down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.’  As maladjusted as Abraham Lincoln who had the vision to see that this nation could not survive half-slave and half-free.  As maladjusted as Thomas Jefferson when the midst of an age amazingly adjusted to slavery could scratch across the pages of history words lifted to cosmic proportions, ‘We hold these Truths to be self-evident, that all Men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, and that among these are Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.’  As maladjusted as Jesus Christ who could look into the eyes of men and women around Galilean hills and say, ‘He who lives by the sword will perish by the sword,’ and, ‘Love your enemies, bless them that curse you. Pray for them that spitefully use you.’  And through such maladjustment we would be able to emerge from the bleak and desolate midnight of man’s inhumanity to man and to the bright and glittering daybreak of freedom and justice.”

Check out what my brother-in-law said about this clip in his blog:

“This struck me as one way of expressing how Christians can articulate our difference from the world.  We are those called by God and filled with the Holy Spirit to remain maladjusted to the ways of the world that are antithetical[different] to God’s way.  We are to be maladjusted to certain things in this world because we are to be well adjusted to the ways of God’s kingdom!  Every church, as an outpost of God’s kingdom in the present age ought to be an Association for the Advancement of Creative Maladjustment.  In other words, we ought to be analyzing what society says is normal and comparing it to the upside down normality of the kingdom of God.  And when we find the multiplicity [large number] of values and behaviors that do not match, we make a conscious decision to find creative ways to remain maladjusted in those areas.  Then we teach that maladjustment to our church members and children so that the contrast between the kingdoms of this world and the kingdom of God remains as stark as it should be.

However, King thought that doing so would enable the society to “emerge from the bleak and desolate midnight of man’s inhumanity to man into the bright and glittering daybreak of freedom and justice.“  Despite the power of his rhetoric and the hope conveyed in that sentence, true freedom and justice will only come about with the return of Christ and the consummation of the kingdom.  Until then, we are to be communities of creative maladjustment pointing toward that coming reality.”

And, that coming reality is…Love Wins in the End!

 

What does MLK Jr. mean when he says we ought to be “maladjusted?”

In what ways do you think Christians should be “maladjusted” to our culture if we are going to show that Love is Winning?

What are some of the ways you are tempted to be “well-adjusted” and “fit-in” in our American culture or at school, work, home, etc? 

How can you become “creatively maladjusted” in these areas to show that Love is Winning?

5 Responses to “Love is Winning: When we don’t fit in – MLK Jr.”

  1. we are tempted to “fit in” “well adjusted” by the people around us when they are listening to bad music whaching bad things dressing inmodistly etc.

  2. *LOVE IS WINNING*

  3. Wow! Peer pressure or cultural pressure can really degrade our potency for Christ. Dr. King really showed with his life that is good to be “maladjusted” to the bad and evil things in our society. Dr. King really showed that Love is Winning although it took his life. We need to ask the question, “How far will our faith take us?” will it take us to uncomfortable situations? Will it take us to extreme pain? Will it lead to total opposition, and or even death? These are question we must ask. We only show our light for Christ when we are tested and tried and we emerge changed into the likeness of Jesus himself. I am struggling with the question and I find that I must have confidence in the Lord to give me strength to make it through. But even if I fail Love still goes on and it has, is, and will win in the end!

  4. We spend so much time worrying about what others think about us and trying to fit in that we lose sight of what God has planned for us and what He wants us to do. We constantly hear that and usually don’t realize that it’s happening. I know I do. It’s all about appearance and reputation, at least at my school. If you don’t talk this way, dress this way, or act this way you’re not “cool.” Now, I don’t know how the high schools and life in general were like back when King was around but I know that he didn’t care what others thought about him. I know it cost him his life but he was willing to stand up for his family, his race, and his religion knowing it would probably end badly. He is a true picture of Love is Winning. I can honestly say I wish I could be as brave as Dr. King, and be able to stand up for God the way King stood up for his rights.

  5. since this is late, I can draw off of the Francis Chan entry 🙂
    I see the kind of maladjusted that we need to become in the way that Chan lives his life. He does not care if people in his own congregation come up and tell him that he is crazy. In fact he wants that. He gives away so much, lives with so little, and loves so much. Compared to the world which says take what you can, keep everything, and love yourself.
    MLK is amazing for what he accomplished but how he lived is even better. surrendering to God so that love can win.


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